So, I recently met someone who is still living with his ex and their two kids. I found out about this tonight, and he claims that they don't have sex, they are separated, the ex has a boyfriend, and he is too poor to live on his own. Okay, but I just don't want the ex being accusatory of me, and there are children involved in their situation. Have I made a mistake by not allowing myself to contact him anymore? Am I just being mean? I just don't want to be hurt in the future. I don't want to be caught up in that mess. Am I wrong in this?