Why are parents so protective!!!!!!?

Hey okay well lets see! ! ! I have wanted to do suicide since last week over this boy tht my parents say ant worth crap but yet why do I still want to be with him.....my parents just want me to forget about him n yet I just cant do that cuz he has been in my life since seven years ago........he has been a great friend to me! I just wish tht my parents would understand tht I want to be with him and he wants to be with me......i guess since they wont understand ill just show them tht thay are wrong about him......and plus I cant just forget about him cuz I see him at skool everyday but they have no say in it when I am 18......i just hope I dont lose contact with him before 18.....im 14 and tht means I have like 4 years......i think I can do it then I will have my own freaken life n dnt have to put up with anything from my parents........why cant my parents just accept the fact tht I love him and get over it? plz help me out here! ! ! ! ! ! thx
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DON'T even think about suicide, my little girl is only 9 months old and i love her with all my heart, all i can say is when you have a baby later on in life you'll then and only then understand why your parents are so protective!!!
When i was 15 i tried to commit suicide and i felt that way for a while, the past 9 years i've turned my life around and it would be the last thing i'd ever do.... unless my little girl died.... So if you killed yourself your parents hearts would die too!
I was obsessive over love years ago i think it's being young and i know it hurts and it's really hard and life can seem so unfair, but you are sooo lucky that your parents love you and that's real love darling and nobody can take that away, don't forget either how much you love them arguments aside just lay in bed and imagen how you would feel if you lost your mum and dad!!!???
Now surely it's worth waiting for this lad untill they allow you to be together and if he's worth it he'll wait for you.
One day you will be with somebody properly... sex and all but wait till it's truly right and do it for love... for everyone, that's being mature and i don't mean that in a bad way xxxxx

Love from dazednconfused!
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dazednconfused
that is what i wanna hear i mean i stay in my room all the time
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anonymous user
thts what everybody says but none of their crap is true
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anonymous user
Its only cuz they luv ya!
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imani101
ya i know but my parents dnt even wanting me to tlk to him at all
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anonymous user
hun, suicide over a guy is not smart.
you are only 14, your heart is going to be
broken so maytimes by the time you get to be 18
your parents really do know whats best for you
they wouldn't say no if they didn't have a good reason
i'm not sayin you have to but trust me on this
being just friends at 14 is alot more fun than anything else
it will save you from alot of drama and less heart breaks
ask any one who is over the age on 16 or 17
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