Whats my problem

I'm queer, not many people know where I live it's getting harder and harder to live here. I want to come out but I cant. I have a dual life between here and college and I dont know what to do. I'm in love with my best friend and she has not idea.
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If I were you, I would just come out and be real. Those who love you, those understanding and true friends will stick by you no matter what. Honestly, there may be some people who are narrow-minded, vapid people who will look at you and not approve, but blow them off! It doesn't matter what they think! What matters is honesty and how happy YOU are. You just need to gather all your courage, look yourself in the mirror everyday, building your confidence a little more until you reach that point.

As for being in love with your best friend, I would first find out if she's bi/gay, and then go from there. If she is, then tell her you like her as that is less threatening then confessing your love right off the bat. Remember, start slow. Even if she likes you, people get spooked easily by people confessing how they feel because it puts them in a situation of shock.

Good luck. I know you can do this! I have faith in you!

Love,
<3 Lauren
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