What's Happened?

Is it just me, or does anyone else agree that Secrettalk is a place to share you secrets and get support. To me that's what Secrettalk is about. And I think we shouldn't have to be judged for sharing our feelings. I think that this should be everyone's safe haven. What do you get for putting someone down for their feelings and their secrets? Everyone has things about them or that they've done that they're not proud of, whether you admit it or not.

That's all. Thanks for reading. :)
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raspberryvampire
I agree, there's something very comforting about an environment that's supposed to be free from judgment and all about getting your feelings out in the open.
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LinePainterJane
It's not a game. No one is winning. I am wasting my time and you're wasting your life/breath. If it makes you feel better about yourself to assume victory, then sure, you win. You REIGN SUPREME.......................but in reality you're just a misunderstood, hurt person that is here for all the reasons you preach against. Stop being a fucking hypocrite. It's pathetic.
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closetromantic
Man, Cynic, you should post what the bitch did that made you the way you are. That would actually help people not become horrible, sickly people. I don't think anyone just is an asshole like you. That being said, you SHOULD share your story of how you became the notorious Cynic.

Gogo! Do it! Become useful or at least acknowledge the fact that you're just stirring the pot of fresh emotions on a site that emphasizes mutual respect and compassion.

Well, I hear the moaning in the other tab, I better get back to the black men. They're beckoning me!
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closetromantic
Wait. Closetromantic have you not noticed that I've been ignoring you? You showed your hand too early in the game. Try again some other time and better luck next time. :)
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Cynic
You're problem, Cynic, is that you don't understand that that's not how everyone thinks. Not everyone just comes on here for attention. They want help, advice, etc.

If trolling this site gives you purpose, then that's great. But you're not helping anyone, if people are on here then they won't listen to silly people like you. I'm not asking you to give it up, I'd actually rather you be in front of your computer belittling people than to be outside in the real world being a meanie.

You're too serious. Not everything is a competition, nor is everything cut and color.

Well enough of this............now I could say that I'm going to do something cool, but I won't. I am about to go watch big black men have sex with each other on the internet. I'm not gay, but it's funny as shit. You should try it Cynic. I think you'd like it.

Big muscular black men giving each other rim jobs. You're unimaginative or a pansy if you don't watch it.
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closetromantic
Here's a hint,
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When you hit the edge, all you want at that point is to be left alone and to die, but part of you reaches out at one last attempt, and if someone just tells you that you're an attention whore, well you're gone.
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By your own logic, you've never been at the edge. That whole "reaching out" meant that you weren't at the point of wanting to be left alone and die.

So.... wait for it.... wait for it...


You're a moron.

:)
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Cynic
As well as you happen to think your logic works, I don't. When you hit the edge, all you want at that point is to be left alone and to die, but part of you reaches out at one last attempt, and if someone just tells you that you're an attention whore, well you're gone. And you never know what someone's last attempt might be, so they way I see it, I'm better off saying something nice and saving a life.
Ok, exactly what sort of retard are you?

See, if you go on about cutting, starving or running away for the sake of getting attention, and we give it to you, well eventually we'll get bored and stop. Then you'll get the bright idea that just talking about it got you some attention to tide you over, so actually doing it would get you more. And so you will. And the cycle restarts. But then we stop giving a fuck, and you realise that you have to up the ante.

That's a destructive cycle. One that needs to be stopped. Not by fucktards who want to compare notes on how best to do it, but by people who're willing to show you what a fool you are being. And frankly, someone being nice to you gets no attention. But someone slapping you in the face elicits shock. How DARE they! You need to read it again! YES they really did just call you retarded!!! and a fucktard!!!! and all sorts of other things!!!! You'll need to think up a good response.

And the THINKING is where it starts.
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Cynic
What she said.............................you're a bitch Cynic. Next time I see a douchebag that reminds me of you, I'm going to cave his face in. You're welcome :)
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closetromantic
Okay, listen Cynic, I know that I will always be judged. I understand that, I do. And I get that it doesn't say you have to be supportive but it doesn't ask you to be mean either. And I get that there are trolls but you don't know who is or isn't a troll. Just because someone's secret sound far out there or stupid or made up, you have no way of knowing. And it might not fix someone or me, but it can help hold you together until you get the help you need, it can help you stay for one more day or night. So no, I don't think it fixed me or anyone else, but it helped.
That's actually a great idea on your part, though I'm probably one of the most helpful members on this site. Only problem is that you don't know much about the OP there, do you?

;^p~~
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Cynic
Cynic has a point. People like him will always be here to try and bring you down. If I were you, I'd just abandon secrettalk and just bounce ideas off friends and family that you can trust.
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closetromantic
Tell me, does it say "Leave your supportive comments"?

Do you think that you will EVER not be judged?

Do you understand the concept of TROLLS?

I know you know what attention-whores are like. Do you really think that pandering to that crap ever fixed you?

BTW you're welcome.
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Cynic
They're all always going to be people that have a calling to be a troll on sites like this. It's cause they're the little man out in the world and they're sick of it.
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