What do you do when....

The best thing to do for the love of your life...is the absolute worst thing you can do for yours...
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OhSnap05
don't compromise yourself for anyone
if they ask you to do something that compromises who you are
then they don't really love you
do they?
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funnypothead
wow i never thought about it like that ...so true they always say do whats best for them..but it is never in favor of you
wow i never thought about it like that ...so true they always say do whats best for them..but it is never in favor of you
Anytime :) good luck!
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Jotiii
You're so right. Thank you for an outsiders view. I really appreciate it.
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OhSnap05
Oh, wow :(. This reminds me of my situation, because my boyfriend's a different religion to me, and we've been together over a year too. My family found out and there's been a lot of violence, i've risked being disowned, i've been hated, etc. My boyfriend saw this all at one point, and gave me the choice... he could leave me now, and i could have my family back. Or, he could stay with me, and my family would hate me. I chose him. Thing is, you need to show her than you're willing to let her go. That doesn't mean nessecarily letting her go, but show her that you want the best for her, and then let her decide. Things might fall into place, her family might learn to accept it, you never know. It's okay to be selfish sometimes, if she's still with you regardless of these consequences, she loves you a lot. It's her choice, and so far she's chosen to stick by you.
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Jotiii
My girlfriend and I have been together over a year. Our relationship is amazing, she makes me feel like we are one. I've never truly cared about anyone more than I do for her. She feels the same. The problem is I am openly gay. My girlfriend is not gay... it's complicated and to give you the round a bout' I'm the only girl she would ever been with. We've been friends for 4 years before we started a relationship. She comes from a very Lutheran family who does not approve of our relationship. I am 23, she is 22. Her parents are everything to her and it kills her to see them hurt so bad. She is my absolute best friend, my go to person, my good morning- my goodnight, my everything. I hate seeing her struggle so bad. I know that this is not the life for her. But I am selfish and I want to keep her. She wants to get married in a church under God, have Daddy walk her down the isle... I can't give her that...but there is no one out there that can love this girl the way I do. My heart is so invested in this relationship... I know the best thing to do is to let her go... let her figure things out on her own, figure out who she is and what she wants... but that sucks for me... I lose my best friend, I love my lover, I love everything.......
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OhSnap05
It depends entirely on the circumstances... elaborate, please? I don't want you to make a big mistake.
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Jotiii