Two weeks before my wedding to the man I'd been dating for five and a half years our entire wedding party signed a letter, written by three of the eight people, saying we weren't ready to get married.It talked about how I was controlling and my husband didn't give a rip.Three years later I'm still married to him despite their fears and I don't talk to them at all.And even more sad.I'm more pissed that they didn't get us a wedding present, and that the girls bought themselves the bridesmaids gift I was going to give them than I am that they didn't know me well enough to know I'd never take on something like "to death do us part" lightly.I should have just had my maid of honor and our best man stand up with us because we're still friends with them.Evidently they weren't as good of friends as I thought they were.