Two Loves

I'm having problems with the love game .I'm so stuck in between two girls and its causing me to not be fully mentally there .I feel like tha only person whos gone thru this and I really just need someone to talk to ..please help me
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seph215
okk .. i left my gurlfriend . and now i find out my ex has a boyfriend..this feels so badd . we went on a date and i poured my soul out and then she told me at tha end of the night .. it was embarrassing . but she wants to leave me 4 him . but now im scared as hell bcuz she lied again .. they both still want me but now its time for me to make a decision .. do i leave completly or choose one ?? im so confused . part of me is leaning towards learnin how to be alone . but i just dont know anymore
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seph215
A little bit. You should't be afraid to be alone, it happens. You just need to stay optimistic. If she does do it again and you break up with her avoid her. It will hurt at first, but it will show her that she can't lie to you twice and get away with it, otherwise she'll do it again. And if you find yourself alone find ways to keep your mind busy. Learn a new hobby you'd enjoy, volunteer somewhere in your town/city, or go somewhere there's lots of people and make new friends. Everything will be alright!
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greenbear
Ur right ... but one more thing . I think another reason why i keep holdin on is because im afaid tht if i go back to my ex she'll lie to me again and im gonna go thru tht crazy damage she did to my heart all over again..then im gonna be alone . Is that selfish ??
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seph215
If there is another way I don't know what is. You shouldn't stay with someone just because you don't want to hurt them by breaking up with them. It just makes it worse because you may start resenting her, or she may never trust guys again. It may take her time but she'll find someone else.
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greenbear
it has to be a different approach to ending it .. i cant just leave her out there like tht . I couldnt live with myself . I would feel so bad .. u dont know of any other methods?
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seph215
it has to be a different approach to ending it .. i cant just leave her out there like tht . I couldnt live with myself . I would feel so bad .. u dont know of any other methods?
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seph215
What did your first girlfriend lie about? But it sounds like you should leave your current girlfriend. It's not fair to you or her to be in a relationship you don't want to be in. Just let her know that she's a great girl but your not the guy she should be with. She deserves someone who will love her with all their heart. I'm not saying you're a bad person but cheating isn't good. You need to follow your heart which seems to be pointing to your ex. Hope I helped!
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greenbear
Well i met these two girls . but i didnt know they were friends..they kept telling each other tht they didnt want me but they did . The one who i liked more was stalling really hard with bein in a relationship so i moved to the next . Even tho tht wasnt what i wanted at tha time it turned into a two year relationship and i fell in love with her so hard .. she was me . And i still love her. But she lied to me and it killed me inside so i broke off and the other gurl picked me up . And now weve been together since december . Even tho i love her .. shes still not the first girl i loved . And its so crazy . I fought so hard to be with her and now i just want my old girlfriend back because i see that she finally might move on this time . I cheated on my current girlfriend so many times with my ex and i even think about her while im laying with my current girlfriend . I want her so bad but i cant just leave my girfriend over a reason like the one i have . I love her but shes not like me and i have to push her to progress in the relationship
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seph215
That's what I'm going through as well. My thinking and intuition have been out of wack. So what are some more details on your situation?
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