Someone told me on ST that...

I'm a stalker :( Am I?
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anonymous user
whatever..........
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RAIN
yeah, makes sense....thanks, maple :)
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anonymous user
Ah, I see. Sorry, when you said "a little further", my mind... Yeah.

Two months, huh... Yeah, I guess you're not yet ready. There's a problem, though. If you keep getting this close to her and later on, nothing happens, or worse, something bad happens, it'll be harder for you to move on because you'll still be attached to her.

Kissing and cuddling makes me think that she wants you and her to be girlfriend and boyfriend, just not with the title. That's kinda risky for you.

For now, I say that until she makes up her mind, don't get too attached. It's just not safe.
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MapleSyrup
We're not having sex....we're mainly just cuddling and kissing and holding each other. No actual sex, not even oral. We're just so compatible it doesn't seem right if we're apart :( I know I need to move on, I do, but it's only been 2 months since we broke up. I don't think I'm ready yet.
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anonymous user
I really think you should move on. Seriously, no matter what she says, move on.

Of course, if you're happy with this, go ahead. It's just that I'd prefer to move on and get another girl rather than having a girl who has sex with you "as friends" and has another boy in hand. She's being selfish.
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MapleSyrup
hehe, and yeah, you probably do know who I am, Maple. Shhhhh! ;) lol
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anonymous user
*not ruling out
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anonymous user
She wants to stay 'single' . She's had bf for 10 years and just needs to not have one for awhile, BUT she still hangs out with her last two bfs. I mean, WTF!

I enjoy her company, I love being around, she loves being around me, we tend to go a little further sometimes than just being friends right now, but we're mostly happy with where we are at. We're not ruling that WE might get back together one day. Ugh! So frustrating.
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anonymous user
I have a feeling I know who you are from a previous post, but anyway:

Why don't you either get back together or move on?
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MapleSyrup
well, she knew I did it once before. She knows I tried tricking her into giving me some of her private info, but yet she still forgives me for it and still cares for me. Another crappy part is that we're still in love with each other.

I don't think she knows that I'm still doing it though. She would be upset if she knew. I check it everyday :( I try not to, but it's just so easy :(
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anonymous user
no but i am *evil laugh muahahahahaha
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marie
Then have some self-control for this. You know how people will feel if you told them that you're doing this stuff or find out about this?
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MapleSyrup
that's another sad part of this, Maple. I use ALOT of self control, I think of other things I can do, but I decide against them.
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anonymous user
huh? what do you mean, callme?
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anonymous user
Still, have some self-control.
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MapleSyrup
if it wasn't so easy to do all of it, I don't believe I would, but it's just so damn easy. Makes it hard not to :(
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anonymous user
omg i lik how u talk n stufs! hahaha
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callme
I can't say psycho, but you are a stalker... Well, not one who has totally gone off his rockers, just one that's insecure.

And... she's your EX? That just makes it worse.
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MapleSyrup
ummmm....well, it's a long story, but in a nutshell....

I have access to my ex girlfriend's phone logs. Since we broke up she's been hanging out with her other ex and talks to him on the phone. She constantly is wanting to come over to MY house though and we still for hours sometimes on the phone.

Really, I know I'm jealous, but I just don't know how to stop looking at her logs. I also am deceiving her ex into thinking I'm a girl online that is interested in him and just trying to keep him distracted really :S

And they both say they will NEVER EVER get back together..but I'm still afraid.

Am I a psycho?? lol
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anonymous user
Find out all about me, and I'll tell you.
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Mopy
who are you anonymous stalker?? :)
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sissorblades
I am, but it's out of love. And Billy loves me back, I just know it!!!
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LoLOLolulL
That depends. What did you do/say to make them say that?
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MapleSyrup
i dunno are you?
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callme