So,

Before I left New York I had a lovely sit down chat with my best friend.

I asked her where she pictured her future.She said that she doesn't have a plan for the future.She never wants to get married.Never wants to have children.She doesn't even desire a long term relationship.

From an outside view, at that moment.I saw her as a very ugly person.She's one of those girls who finds themselves stuck in a relationship after a few weeks of giving a guy sex, and making herself seem like a completely different person that desires a future with a man.
When in reality.She's a tease.

I confronted her about the situation.From my point of view she has been handed everything on a silver platter.She only has a job due to her mother's connections.

So there is no reason for her not to want a future for herself.

I just wish she would stop leading men with good hearts into a black hole of destruction.
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WillowTree
..."Just because."
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JesseJames
likewise, certainly thought provoking.
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JesseJames
In a way, yes.



I remember. It's a good feeling. One of the few good feelings that I have experienced.



Well, I'm off for a jog! Gotta love this terrible, lovely hot weather.


Nice chatting with you James.
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WillowTree
Sex is cancer, plain and simple.

I cannot even remember what anything close to intimacy feels like, honestly.
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JesseJames
Sex is hardly something that takes a role in my life. Not that I'm prude or anything. I've just only been in love with one man in my life.

And I don't have sex unless there is love involved.

I like intimacy, but there are other ways to find it.
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WillowTree
I think everybody's sex life is disturbing.

Like just because you can put aside 3-10 minutes of time to breed crotch, you somehow more popular and a better human being. Fuck.
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JesseJames
I hate to think about her sex life.


That's disturbing.
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WillowTree
There are two types of people meant to die alone, she happens to be the kind that requires a good dicking now and then.
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JesseJames
Well. For the most part yes.


Regardless of our differences I will always love her, and support her.
But when it comes to her dating life I almost feel the responsibility to warn the sorry sap that she attacks next.
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WillowTree
Your friend is the 99% and it should come as no surprise that she wants to notch up instead of knock up. Women are like that, plain and simple.
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JesseJames
I know. It makes me wonder where our friendship parted ways.

I mean the children aspect doesn't bother me so much, seeing as I don't really want them.

But then again I'd be willing to give anything I have for the right guy. I'd be willing to sacrifice my wants and needs for some of his own.

The fact that even if she met the guy that was perfect for her, she wouldn't make the step towards a future with him makes me nauseous.
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WillowTree
I think her lack of desire for long term relationships and children is fine, but to date and fuck men anyway? Counter intuitive and absolutely disgusting.
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JesseJames