Singleton for life?

I think there is something wrong with me because I'm 17 and never had a proper boyfriend.I'm so ready to fall in love but I'm scared that nobody wants me - how can I expect somebody to love me when I dont even love myself?
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Hanban
NOT having a boyfriend shouldn't be a problem.
Of course your scared to fall in love because you don't even love yourself just yet, and until then, you won't actually be ready to fall in love. Get this:

"Timing significantly influences love. Individuals are more likely to fall in love if they are looking for adventure, craving to leave home, lonely, displaced in a foreign country, passing into a new stage of life, or financially and psychologically ready to share themselves or start a family"-
What do you think of that?
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bookwurm
Don't stress over it. Don't search for it. Give it time. Love will find you when you least expect it. I know.


And there are more 22 year old virgins (male and female) than you realize. My younger brother is one of them...
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NorthernStarr
i'm 22 and ive never had a girlfriend. the farthest ive ever been with a girl in my life was a hug. i dont get it. i dont see anything wrong with me. im physically fit, intelligent, patient, conversational, nice... oh well

i got used to it, to tell you the truth. i moved on and it doesnt bother me anymore. being in a single status isnt a big deal for me. to tell you the whole truth, i feel numb. im actually afraid to get into a relationship now. how will she react when i dont even know how to kiss, much less have sex? how many 22 year old virgins are there in the world? this is why i grew numb to it. i dont even wanna be in a relationship. because of this, i dont hardly ever get interested in a girl. dont get me wrong, im still attracted to them and i still think girls are hott... but thats about it. no emotional attachment at all.

if you stay in this single status, dont let it breed more problems. to try and act normal, i tell the guys yeah ive had girlfriends, yeah ive had sex, yeah i know about this and that and whatnot... i'm so freakin good at lying now i'm actually a compulsive one. NOBODY really knows me anymore. good freakin luck to you