Now I don't care thank God. I'm glad that I'm over that stereotypical view on life concerning myself, what others may or may not think of me and what I think of others. I'm open to relationships because what's most important is one's character at the end of the day. Yes, one should be physically attractive to the other and common interests, goals and values. Bottom line it's about self respect and attracting people regardless of color to that as opposed to seeking those who will only support your insecurity in self. I'm proud to be black, natural hair and all. MLK didn't die so that we'd still segregate ourselves. When are we actually going to learn that.
I'm ok with the idea now. Doesn't mean that it will happen that way.but barriers need to be taken down in order to open doors to new opportunities. Later.