Questions To Women

Emotions:
If women are so strong, they why do they need so much emotional support?

Materialistic:
If women are not biologically materialistic (degrees may very, but results are the same),
then why does nearly every complement women give to one another contain words such
as pretty and beautiful. What does pretty or beauty have anything to do with anything,
other than a huge materialistic re-assurances in ones self. I would be offended if in their place by now.

Life Role Choices:
Why do women feel liberated to be jacks of all trades, vs. a master of her domain?
Further more, why do women have so many life options, but men only get to be rated
by a career or no career? No father roles are equally respected, or have ever been
judicially held as high as mothers. Why?

Objectification:
Why is visually admiring a women who clearly dresses to be admired, considered
objectifying that women; but yet we accept and consider it complementary when women
refer to their male partner as "my man" or "my baby daddy" in an actual and real objectification form?
When did one form of objectification become acceptable and another not? Treating the
man you love as if he was an object (jokingly or not) is still objectifying a human being
with feelings.

Guilt:
When did men adopt the guilt in all the pleasures of women? I mean with all the sexual
freedoms women have gained over the past century, how is it that now more than ever
we as a society in whole believe and accept this notion that women don't actually like sex
and are just nagged into it. News flash, women enjoy sex as much if not
more than men. It's acceptable for women to blame their sexual likes on the male partner
in so many levels now, that the idea of men actually enjoying sex because (like all our
actions) we enjoy the sight, sounds and feeling of pleasing and pleasuring a women, is
well, comical. Why?

Double Standard:
Why is it that every accomplishment a women makes now has an optional and socially
acceptable "Take than men!" victory dance (figuratively of course), but it is not acceptable
and may result in termination if a man compeats back. I guess this is part of my first
question, if women are so strong, why do they need this optional victory dance for "all
women kind" in every accomplishment she makes? Further more, at what level or degree does ones difficultly in an accomplishment become silly to declare in the name of all women kind?

Manipulative:
Why do women get to socially express and or demand (with overwhelming support) how
she thinks a man should act, look and behave with out repercussions? A man saying the
same words towards a women is a horrible human being, why?

Violent:
If men are so violent towards women all the time, then why do all studies and reports show
that women are the ones who escalate confrontations (against both
genders) to physical levels more than men? If you think I'm crazy, then why do lesbian
relationships rank the highest in violent offenses rate?

Generational Demagoguery:
Why do women think it healthy to relate with other women in groups by primarily
shaming and disrespecting both men and father roles, yet then can turn towards they sons
and call them mommy's little man?

You want equality, then show you know how to represent equality.
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1. If guys are so "strong" then why do they need steroids? Same question, different scenario.

2. Honey being materialistic isn't even the slightest bit biological. And If someone thinks someone's hair is pretty, telling them that their hair is pretty isn't being Materialistic. Materialism is much more so associated with money and greediness. And what gender is considered the most money hungry? Mhm.

3. Everyone in life has options and everyone in life has opportunities. Whether you take them or not is complete a choice of your own. Whether the option comes to you is up to the world. And who is usually the most employed gender in the world? And moms gives birth kay? Mhm.

4. Honey if you want your girlfriend to call you "her man", then she hasn't subjected you any object except for what you were referring to yourself as. If the sun is a little hotter and a woman wants to wear shorter shorts than she should be able to do that without you trying to subject her to an object anything less than a woman. Why? Because that's what we refer to ourselves as. The golden rule is respect babe.

5. You sir just made that up out of the dust and flowers because for as long as I can remember, one of the most stressed points of a feminist is that women have always wanted their sexuality to be thought on the same level as men. For example, a guy sleeps with 20 people in one day and is congratulated. A girl does the same and is a s**t. Yo there is even a new organization started called "free the nipple" where girls protest to be able to keep tops off in public. Mhm. Look it up.

6. This whole double standard thing is completely invalid. I don't know where you live but here in America, No one gets "terminated" for being a man and bragging. Guys brag all the time and it's glorified lolz you made that up too. Also here in America, there has still never been a female president. Until we take our throne on the levels of respect in society, we have every right to rub in whatever victories made. And if you're whining about it, then maybe you were born the wrong gender.

7. Omgz You made this up too. Give me at least one source where women were telling MEN how they should act. I don't hear the term Man-like often but "lady-like" gets thrown in a woman's face from the time she's born. Long hair, skinny, and voluptuous is the image that MEN created for girls, so you know what girls do, the become anorexic, buy hair extensions and buy bigger boobs to meet the male mind's standards. If you deny that, then you're a liar.

8. Show me statistics. Show me any police reports on domestic violence are a majority of lesbians. Keep in mind that we're talking about America the Brave where gay marriage isn't even fully legal yet.

9. I have been called "Daddy's little girl" my whole life. When I am fifty, My father will still call me "Daddy's little girl" Never have I ever saw a mother call her fifty year old son her "little man" Ever. Also, whatever disrespect you are talking about from girls to guys may be a personal thing because I can think of many more insulting terms against women than men.

If you want belittle the amount of respect that the woman deserves, then you need to tell the truth first of all, and you I think you need to learn a little more about being a woman in a Man's world. Also, be valid, or else you're just making men look stupid.
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JaneRose
Ask yourself. would women still even be here had we not needed them for reproduction?
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leeroy88
A lot of posters end up doing just that.
Funny, no comments from the original poster.
Seems almost as if they didn't even write this up in the first place.
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tanyalasagna
But then there's the bro tool womanizer. He's part of the reason why some girls claim to despise men.
It's silly. The kid is a moron but I'm not going to allow one d-bag to skew with my opinion on an entire gender. Same with my feminist friend. She's extreme but not all feminists are bad.

Anyways. I just don't like to lump everyone into one category. That's all. I wasn't trying to argue.
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tanyalasagna
I dated so many guys that we're such little girls. Winny needy materialistic pathetic little girls that btw took them longer then me to get dressed.
but cool for you for generalizing an idiotic concept developed by idiots and supporting it.
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Fuzzyssad
People like that are why women are still seen as inferior by so many.
She once got extremely angry with me for "allowing" my boyfriend to buy me a tacky bracelet with an infinity symbol on it.
"Does he now think that your HIS?! FOREVER?! This is serious Tanya. That's the SYMBOL for FOREVER. He takes you as PROPERTY. FOREVER."
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tanyalasagna
I was only saying that every human being regardless of where you come from will have a motive for everything they to even if it's not an immediately noticeable one to even them. It's in the subconscious of your mind. It's what keeps us alive. It's not a bad thing.

As for debating your feminist friend, that is moot because I know better than to try and have a logical discussion with a feminist.
I'm just going to say this: one of the most plausible theories as to why modern humans became bipedal is because they wanted to be able to give gifts/food to different family members and clans because that is how you survived. You made connections in order to cause a sense of obligation. "I gave you this, you now need to protect me". We use this basic instinct even to this day. For example, my grandmother has bought all of her siblings kids birthday gifts and graduation presents and wedding gifts and has thrown baby showers because now, they're obligated to do the same for me when I'm in that situation which is why I got close to $3000 for graduating high school. It's handed down from generation to generation.

However, the Internet has put a wrench in that. I have no real obligation to anybody on here and neither does anybody else. In fact, there are many articles that have proven that the Internet does not have the power to back a revolution because it is created on "weak ties". So, on the Internet, our basic human instincts are different and you have to apply that knowledge accordingly.
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ToxicLullaby
Not you. The original post.
Should have clarified.


Also is it awful of me to want to see you and my feminazi friend get into a debate. It would be silly.
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tanyalasagna
I was at no point talking about feminism. Where did you even get that from?
All I said is that ST has an issue with lumping everyone into a category, and that's unfair.
In this case, not everyone is sexist and not all feminists are angry lumbering women. Some are dudes too.
My best friend is a feminist. I take everything she says with a grain of salt. It's the only way.
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tanyalasagna
This is me being nice. If I wanted I could have gone into detail describing why your belief in right and wrong is a sham, but like I said I'm being nice.
I knew your nice act wasn't going to last long.
Oh well. Have fun being bitter at everyone and not realizing the beauty of not giving a damn.
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tanyalasagna
Keep telling yourself that.
Meh.
I guess I personally really don't care enough to be sexist or manipulative with a personal motive, in that case. And most of my friends are the same way. I do have the feminazi friend and the womanizer bro tool friend, as most people do.
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tanyalasagna
I disagree. No one person is genuinely nice. Everyone has a motive. It's an essential part of what allows us to function.
In short it all goes back to how one seeks out joy and in some cases it involves being nice.
I just don't get why every man or woman is shoved into this category of being sexist. Not every man is a pig and not every woman is a monster.
There's some genuinely nice people out there who don't give much of a damn about anyone else to even be sexist in the first place.
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tanyalasagna
Don't blame me for this one. It ain't mine. Though I do find it rather agreeable.
You make some good points, but you also make sweeping generalizations about both sexes.
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