Oh great

Why do I try to be happy? Seriously.Everytime I try, something goes wrong.UGH.Great.Fucking GREAT.I shouldn't even try anymore.I'm done.Disappointment is ruining me.
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AskingMyself
Do you have proof that any cutter in the world DOESN'T? The answer to that is no, btw. Especially since we've already established that people who cut for attention tend not to admit that as a reason, until they've gotten out of the habit.

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If everyone didn't worry about other people's feelings and just about being useful, Earth wouldn't know compassion nor love nor any emotion that you feel with two people. Sure this place would be clean and so many things would be right, but what's the point of that if there isn't any happy people? Everyone would be zombies. Making people happy is useful. But such a surprise there, the cold-hearted stone doesn't believe so.
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That's an amazingly retarded thing for you to say. The reason why is that it's the most dumbfucked attempt to get out of actually doing something useful I've ever seen.

See, you were thinking that I'd not notice that you'd not had a fucking thing to say about what you've done that's useful.

Personally I've saved someone from drowning, I regularly volunteer large chunks of my time to those who actually need it. I've helped build homes for those who needed it, took part in fundraising events. I've assisted in organising groups for charitable events. Not too long ago I was involved in helping to organise a group to repaint an orphanage. Oh... and I donate blood pretty often too. I don't do any of those things because someone ASKS me to. I do it because I think that it needs doing.

I don't do it for thanks, or praise, or money, or self benefit.

And you know what? There's nobody on this internet that can make me feel like shit when they ask what I've done that was useful to others.

I also tend not to feel all depressed and mope around wishing things were better. Coincidence? I think not.
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Cynic
You can't speak for all cutters, do you have proof from EVERY cutter in the world that do it for attention?
Doubt that.

Everyone in their own mind is judging someone. But that doesn't mean you have to say your thoughts outloud. Apparently you have no selfcontrol and you must say everything that pops into your head. Kind of like a dog. You have to do something as soon as it pops into mind without any thinking of the outcome.

Things people say DO change things. You can not speak for all suicidal people because you have dealt
with suicides in the past. Quit thinking everything is as generic as you.

If everyone didn't worry about other people's feelings and just about being useful, Earth wouldn't know compassion nor love nor any emotion that you feel with two people. Sure this place would be clean and so many things would be right, but what's the point of that if there isn't any happy people? Everyone would be zombies. Making people happy is useful. But such a surprise there, the cold-hearted stone doesn't believe so.

And what are you doing that's useful?..
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All cutters do it for the attention. Most don't admit to it.

If everyone judges, then how on Earth could this be a "judgement free zone"? That right there is just plain dumb.

As for the suicide card, that one's been played too many times, and each time it was broken. It's an attempt to guilt without any real thought. Anyone committing suicide was broken to begin with. Nothing you say to someone can stop them from committing suicide if they're really going to do it so by the reverse token nothing that you say to a person can force them to kill themselves. And good news, I've known suicides in the past. So I CAN say that. See how simple it is?

Oh? You go out of your way to make everyone happy? Sounds like a bullshit line to me. See I didn't ask if you did things to make people happy. I asked if you do USEFUL things. Seems to me that you took a moment to think about it and couldn't come up with a good answer and are just mumbling about not needing to prove anything to anyone.

Go out and make yourself useful to people and you'd have less of this sort of "oh I'm never happy"-shit on your plate
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How so?

And if you were smart, not all of them do. There are several types of cutters, some
do do it for attention, some do it because they feel they need to discipline theirselves. Google it.
And I'm aware that everyone judges but this should be a judgemental free zone since some people on here DO need help. How would you feel if you used your comment on someone's secret and they believed you? Then they go out and commit suicide because of your words? Oh surely you won't care because you don't know them. But what if it IS a person you know? Friend, cousin, teacher, aunt or whomever. And they killed themselves because of your assholeness? But with having no heart no sense of compassion, you probaly wouldn't give a fuck.

And I go out of my way everyday to make someone happy. I do not need to prove myself to you. No I'm not some Saint, working in soup kitchens and shit. But I do those little things that can brighten someone's day.
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If I really wanted attention, I would reply to comments on my secrets but I usually don't. I usually ignore them.
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Strange, this secret sort of makes that comment into a lie, doesn't it.

And yeah, all cutters claim that they don't do it for the attention. It's like the group motto or something, everyone knows that it's bullshit though. As for being judged, learn to live with it, everyone judges everyone else. I'm just very open about it.


Sooooo, tell me about the sooooooo much shit that you do for other people. And I mean, if it's shit like "i lend my friend my book sometimes" and "the other day I put a penny in the homeless guy's jar" or "i donate all my old clothes to charity when my mommy reminds me that i don't use them any more" you're wasting your time.
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hey Cynic. why dont you just copy that paragraph and post it on every secret to try and seem cool? I bet you're just fucked up too. trying to seem cool and unaffected, and yet you post on all these secrets to get a reaction. Kinda sad really.
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untilkirksleeps
Cutting: on my stomach which I NEVER show, so yeah. Reaally hoping someone will see.
Poetry: About my anger, I don't do both poetry AND cutting at the same time. And I have never showed a poem anyone. The poetry helps distract me from why I was mad.
Here: Because I don't have to make my words rhyme as I do in poems and I just
vent. If I really wanted attention, I would reply to comments on my secrets but I usually don't. I usually ignore them. The only reason why I replies to Crxfmxhn because it would seem
rude to ignore them and reply to you.

And none of them are. But I do SOO much shit or other people that I believe I can let my fucking anger out in someway. And I don't give a fuck if people pay attention to my vents, I actually rather them not. I never said I was entitled to anything ethier, but I believe I should get this anger out in a healthy way besides cutting.

And ya know what? Why don't you go do something productive unlike judging me, a person whom you never met, and go do something productive? And I'd like to say, I was gonna go out and do stuff today but then my plans got changed, hence my anger.
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Lets see.
Cutting - with the secret hope that someone will notice and stop you.
Poetry - (probably about cutting) read to people in the hopes of getting their attention.
Here - because you think that nice people will pay attention and respond.

Which one of those do you consider USEFUL to other people? Which of those would make anyone think that you have some redeeming property that is worth paying attention to? What exactly makes you entitled to anything?


But hey, it's easier to tell me to shut the fuck up, than it is to go out and do something worthwhile with your time, isn't it?
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Cynic
I do keep trying and all I ever get is disappointment.

&Cynic, I'm not doing this for attention. I'm doing this to vent out all my feelings. Because when I'm pissed I need those feelings out of system someway. Ethier cutting, poetry, screaming or by sharing my feelings on this website. Looks like I chose this one. And I believe you're the one wanting attention since you copy and paste the same comment on almost every secret, why don't YOU do something useful and shut the fuck UP. I'm sick of your trolling and mocking other people. Go do something productive.
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AskingMyself
Don't care, too many of these stories on this website already. If you said you did something that was useful, everyone would be so fucking amazed by seeing something new for a change, you'd get all the attention you're craving and then some.
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Cynic
Don't give up.
Keep trying.
Then, you won't even have to try to be happy.
You just will be
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