Need help in the.... sexual department

Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating a while and before we have sex he wants me to masturbate so it wont hurt as bad......well I tried and I just couldn't do it, I didn't like the normal way.
What are some common things that can be found in your house to masturbate with?
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anonymous user
Even if you masturbate first, it will probably still hurt the first time you have sex. That's just part of losing your virginity. But it's certainly worth a try, especially since it might help the both of you emotionally prepare. If you, for whatever reason, can't get ahold of a dildo or vibrator (if you're underage they sell them at Spencer's for pretty cheap), then there are usually a few things you can find. Anything with a banana or penal type shape should do the job fine. If it happens to vibrate, even better. I would recommend using something you're not going to use again, though, because masturbation can get messy. Worst-case scenario you can put a condom over whatever it is you're masturbating with. I do recommend just getting a cheap vibrator, though. Some are as low as $8 as Spencer's. It makes the whole experience less weird/awkward. I know some people that have masturbated with bananas before, and I guess that works pretty well, if that's something you're comfortable trying. Anything of those shapes should be fine. Since it'll be your first time, I'd say use something a littler longer/wider if you're trying to pop our cherry before engaging in actual intercourse. Don't get something bullet-size; use something that will actually fill your vagina up and stretch it a little.
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EscapeReality
i think that you are better off goign with muteral masterbation, this is when he gets you off and you get him off.
go nuts and try all the foreplay options before you have sex
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secretsoulmate
The answer wouldn't help you one way or the other, troll.
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