I am a recovering self-injurer/cutter.I have quite a few scars on my arms, wrists and thighs.I'm really scared to tell a guy that I'm dating or interested in what ive done.obviously they find out when we have sex or do stuff.but I want to let the guy know so its not a huge surprise.im just scared what he might think...how should I start the conversation? what if I cry..which I probably will because I still am very embarrassed, guilty and ashamed about it.I'm afraid a guy will think I'm troubled or alot of work, like I'm damaged...im scared that I might freak him out if I cant help but tear up a little.like he'll like I'm still a hot mess.lol.advice please?
like do guys get annoyed when girls cry?
please be honest! ! I wont take offense.if you think scars are a disgust tell me! like how would you react or feel if a girl you liked and were soon to be intimate with, told you about this?...and cried...
THANK YOU ALL <3