Need Advice ASAP!

My lover and I purchased a home and 3.5 acres last May.I am the primary on the home/land and her name is also on it.We dated for 3 yrs.prior to this purchase and moving in together and I told her in the beginning that I would never have her mom living with us because I like my privacy too much and just like it to be me and my lover living together.In Dec.2008 her mom got cervical cancer and my lover just brought her mom here without talking with me first.I just had to tolerate it and have been dealing with her mom living with us for the past 4 months now.Her mom has been cancer free for 3 weeks now and it doing fine.She has diabetes and her blood sugar goes up and down sometimes.She has a blood clot in her leg, but walks around all the time.She has minor heart trouble, but has had that all her life.She has been fine for the most part and they have been going shopping alot.I am in seclusion all the time in my office because I can't stand this living situation anymore.We have no relationship at all anymore.I don't see her mom ever leaving and when I even bring up the issue my lover walks away and doesn't want to hear it.I have no rights in my own home.I pay all the bills, clean up after them, have no privacy, etc.My lover still has another home that her mom was living in only 5 miles away before this happened.My lover just turned off her phone at that home last week, which leads me to believe her mom is not going back there.She has 2 other sisters who are going about their happy lives.This is not fair to me at all.Am I wrong for feeling like this is not fair and for feeling like I'm being taken advantage of? I have had enough and don't know what to do about it.Please help.
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lisamc3tn
Your lover is being really thoughtless. Have a talk with her again. Keep trying until she hears you out. When you get that chance, tell her that it pains you to have to live her mother, and that you're upset with the fact that the two of you spend less time together. This is very unfair to you, do something about it before the situation becomes worse and problems arise. <3
I meant to say that wasn't considerate of her to you at all...
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Essie
Maybe you could stay at the "other" house until she gets tired of playing nanny to her mom. Maybe you guys could get some neutral person to help sort things through. She sounds very self centered and does what she wants. Maybe the break away will do you both some good.
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Odey