Msg: him

This is the message my 21 year old bf sent me:

You just need to relax a bit more with what we have.Don't take it too serious, only because we're just too far apart to have anything to build a foundation on and I'm trying to keep us in wait til your old enough.Basically just enjoy eachother company and relationship we have now.

I snt him two msgs and he replied with this.He said hes been antisocial lately and doesnt tell anyone.im 16 and hes 21 and we live in diff states.i dont understand what he means though can someone help please I'm really confused.
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shady08
No. Because there's no relationship.
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Cynic
why though? cus its long distance?
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shady08
There's no relationship. He's NOT your boyfriend. You are NOT his girlfriend.

Move on.
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Cynic
he told me that he liked me a few months ago and that it was my choice to see if we got together. and i said yes... in the begining it went okay.. but now i think hes depressed because of not having a job. He told me he was my bf and that me and him are togethr.
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shady08
End whatever the hell they have..
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mormolyceia
End what? HE's obviously not in any sort of relationship with HER.
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Cynic
Just accept it. Enjoy what you have. If you try and force him to commit to something more serious he may end it. Then again if serious is what you're wanting, you may want to find someone else who wants that too.
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mormolyceia
He's not your boyfriend. Get over it and move on.
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Cynic
so what do you think i should do?
i guess your right.
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shady08
Well you're 16 he's 21...can you really blame him? You're still a kid.
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mormolyceia
thats exactly what i was dreading..
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shady08
It means he doesn't want to be serious
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mormolyceia
You shouldn't be dating him anyway.
It's long distance. Which is pointless.
And doing anything, if you did see him, is illegal.
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Chaos2008
I mean, explain to us concisely why you are calling him your 'bf'.
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Cynic
what do you mean by that cynic?
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shady08
Why exactly are you calling him your 'bf'?
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Cynic