Masturbate

I am 12 and I masturbate from 3 to 5 times a week.
I feel GROSS for doing it but I don't want to stop.
Help?
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anonymous user
As Secretstalker said she right.!!!!! My comment was dum dont pay attention to it !!!!
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KissMeGoodnight
Don't sweat it. As Secretstalker said, it's normal & everyone does it, whether they want to admit to it or not. It's not gross, and it's ok to be curious about your sexuality.
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lovely
PASSION: I just want to take a moment here to tell you to go screw yourself. I would say that unlike half of the "secrets" posted on this site in the past month *at earliest*, this one seems actually real, or at least it's realistic, so yaaa, this person did need to share this if it's a real issue *which I don't doubt that it could be*. Why on earth should this poster stop touching themselves, really? It doesn't mean that they're going to have sex as soon as they are alone with a boy. There's no harm in masturbating.

I mean, I started humping random things when I was about 8 years old, and had no idea what the fuck was going on or why I was doing that. Unlike this poster, I didn't even know that it was masturbating! It's just biology, and without someone explaining it to you or normalizing it, it's going to be scary as hell and confusing! I was creeped out about it until I was about 15 when I finally understood that it was just human nature and it wasn't something evil that I was doing. Of all the primal instincts that society tries to force out of you, in my case, sexuality just wasn't one of them. However, as young as I was with my instinctual inclinations to hump crap on a regular basis, I never ended up having sex with the first boys that payed me any attention. That's where civilization and upbringing DO come in. I'm older than 18 and I'm still a virgin, thank you very much.

Anonymous:

Don't worry about it. You are learning about your sexuality and what makes you tick. I felt gross too, but really, it's okay and you'll learn this in time, so here is some reassurance to make you feel more comfortable and to hopefully shorten that time. EVERYONE DOES IT!!!!!!!! Boy and girl alike!!!! It's a scientific fact, and those that don't are simply repressed and have fear instilled in them. Don't feel bad about what you are doing, because it's just natural!
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Secretstalker
ummm how do you guys know this is a girl??? :/
I masturbate 3 to 5 times a DAY.....sometimes I feel gross and sometimes I don't.
If you really want to stop, then I would advise you to get in situations where you are not tempted to do so.
When you want to masturbate...touch a whole bunch of door handles...get your hands germy, and then you wouldn't want to touch yourself (make sure to wash your hands after the temptation has left). Leave your door open and unlocked. Try to be around people. Read a book, write, EXERCISE!!
And the #1 best trick of mine is to urinate!! usually that relieves sexual tension.
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Toxxic
There are PLENTY of girls who've masturbated young and are not sluts. Anyway, I suggest you stop. I mean, if you're disgusted with yourself then stopping sounds like a good solution. Just keep busy, try to rid of ''dirty''thoughts..stuff like that.
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simplyanonymous
thats so normal lol dont feel gross !! people masturbate almost everyday!!! its better to masterbate than to become hoe or slut!!!!1
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KissMeGoodnight
lolz....Did you really need to share this?........I mean I do the same however I started at 18 not 12 years old...prettly soon your going to want to have sex too I bet since you can't stop doing that already. I mean theres no rush to grow up my dear and if you cant resist not touching yourself I don't know how on earth you are going to resist when some slimey guy wants to get into your pants. All it takes is a little self control thats all, your mind controls your body you can always go againts what your body wants.
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