Leave it or help?

I'm sixteen and two years ago I stopped eating.My weight dropped to 5 and a half stone.I tried to stop after a 4/5 months and gradually I put on weight, and I got better.At the moment i'm a fairly healthy 7 and a half stone, but when I get stressed with exams, or something bad happens, I stop eating again for a while.

Around a month ago, I went skiing with the school, we have quite a big school so we don'teven know nearly everybody in our year.My bestfriend kind of got with this really great guy who she didn't know before.I got talking to this guy and his ex is in the year bellow me and is bestfriends with one of our 'family friends' who I haven't seen in about 2/3 years, called emily.

Emily has got anorexia and everybody knows, she is very very skinny.

I hadn't seen her properly in a long time, I saw her in the corridor last week and smiled, but then I saw how skinny her legs were and realised it was much more serious than I thought.That weekend I went to a party and got stupidly drunk and phoned emily, all I remember is saying 'i know, I understand' etc, and then in the morning I text her saying how sorry I was for phoning her so late, but I didn't know exactly what I had said, so didn't bring up the subject of the conversation.She just text me back saying 'Don't worry it's fine.'

Emily has a boyfriend and lots of friends, so part of me thinks I should stay out of it.Also I know that if I see the starving, i'll almost become jealous and want to be that person again, knowing that I could relapse back into anorexia.

But, at the same time, I really want to talk to her, i've never told anyone about my anorexia, I want to tell someone, I want to hear about hers, I want to try and help her.

Should I stay out of it? Or should I find a way (a suggestion would be nice :P ) to talk to her about it?
THANKYOU! X
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beth275
yeah you guys should get together to talk about it with eachother, but also you both should get professional help. theres a reason yr doing this and you need to sort it out
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safetynet
tell her, dont text! but tell her! just tell her how it started for you, say what made it start say I stoped eating and things got bad...just the truth after all that say your sory for the drunk dial....

good luck to you, and keep up the weight I be your TOO SEXY! at 7.5 stones :)
its hard I know I have been there too. keep your head up. dont dwell on the bad live in the hope :)

Josh!
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