I'm terrible at relationships...

It seems I always pick the ones with something wrong with them.I keep picking guys who are unstable, or fucked up in the head.
Every once and a while I get a really good guy that comes along, that has no major problems, and really likes me.But these are never the guys I like.So if I pretend I don't notice I'm just "oblivious" or their "friend zoned", and if I give them a chance they go and fall for me completely.And that's when I hurt them, because I can't sit there and watch it, so I've broken a few hearts, and had my heartbreak in return.
Right now I have a dilemma.Two great guys, and one really likes me, and he's asked me out on dates a few times, but only one went through, and we had a lot of fun.But I don't find him sexually attractive, he has a great personality though.Meanwhile, I'm pursuing a guy I think is funny and cute, and he's super shy.
Who knows if either of these will work out.But I don't want to hurt anyone this time, because Karma's been a real bitch to me.Maybe I'll just become a lesbian, cause friends with benefits doesn't work.
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Badwolf
It kind of scares me when guys do fall for me. Except when I do at the same time, or very close to it.
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Badwolf
No, my parents split when I was little, I live with my mom znd step dad and they're in a pretty good relationship
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Badwolf
Are you modeling after your parents relationship?


Also, falling in love is reckless unless you know how to do a controled fall. Usually one person falls first and they other no longer wants to jump. This is exremely common.

If you are the one who wants to fall first simply hold back until the he jumps. Make him wonder if you are into him, make him pine for you, and then you can jump. Otherwise you'll be hard pressed to find someone who jumps in at the exact rate as you.
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SimilarlySilly
Sorry it's so long
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