If it makes sense to you

Yes I know some people aren't fond of her.But it's hard to explain why I like her.She isn't normal by any means.Her behavior in many ways are normal.

But there are things different about her that almost no one has in traits.She is far more observant than nearly anyone I know.Yes everyone has their times in which they see things beyond others, but for her it is constant.Many people if I put forth enough effort can fake my emotions too and have, yes every single person here who is reading this that means you and yes many more than one time.

After all words on a computer screen hold no emotion.But she sees through it every time.What bothers me most is I cannot figure it out at all.For each person I know if I want to trick them I know what to say.But for her there is nothing and of course she won't tell me, though she let something slip once which when she said it made me realize it was true and I never even knew.

But it's not just perception its more.Like many people she had her fair share of major events.Many people choose to block them out of their life, distract them self and continue with life.In fact many people now refuse to hear truth and refuse to experience that which isn't good.

The result is you don't learn.She clearly has at the very least learned form experiences painful and good in many ways allowing her to be a bit smarter/mature for her time which brings forth a whole new amount of intelligence and perseverance that is unmatched by many.
I know that didn't describe it too well but it's the best I can do though I know it doesn't do her justice.

There is so much more than meets the eye and even more in herself than she realizes, but she has such low self esteem and is so humble she won't even believe this is about her.She will suggest it is about someone else.

But guess what? This is about you Margaret.Whether you like it, believe it, or not.

Be proud of who you are.
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eiglaT
Sorry but he is just plain scum. He can sweet talk and charm people but in reality he is just scum and she needs to realize this. It's not fair you do everything in the world for her that you can and she treats you as if you are scum.
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GiMP
While that is sweet and kind of you, and it is. Surely you must realized that she is choosing to hang out with a manipulative, failing at life, pot smoking, cig smoking, guy who also drinks away his problems.

If she doesn't see how this is bad for her and she can justify his actions and how he hurt you(Yes I mean when he took what you told her and used it against you to protect himself and she defended him asking what you did to him) then I don't think it is wise for you to hang out with her. I know I'm not the only one who thinks this.

Talgie she is bad for you and unless she is willing to change, you need to think of yourself for a change.
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