I Got A Problem

So I've been in this relationship for three years. We have a kid together. We haven't fought much. Until recently. Suddenly I am being questioned for everything I do. Suddenly everything I do must be cheating. Suddenly he's checking my phone when he thinks I'm sleeping and coming up with all sorts of scenarios that allegedly lead to me cheating. He's telling all his Co workers and our mutual friends that I am cheating. He even said because I talked to my sister for an hour instead of being all over him that it is a sign I am cheating. I'm starting to not want to be home or around him anymore. I also don't want to throw away the last three years. I've tried to consult with close friends and they say maybe he is the one who is cheating. I just don't think that is the case but I also don't understand why this is happening.
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goingcrazy
Niether of us have cheated that I am aware of.
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goingcrazy
Have you cheated in your past and he knows about it? Or, did you cheat on someone else with him or to be with him?

Or, yes, maybe he has a history of cheating, therefore will think that everyone else must also have that tendency?

By the way, three years ain't nothin'. It's actually the average time it takes for the initial infatuation and new relationship/honeymoon brain fog to completely wear off and no longer be the main playing factor in a relationship. But, in the grand scale, three years is a very short amount of time to invest in a relationship. Trust me that it's much better to end it now than 3 more years, or 3 more after that, or 3 more after that. When things start going off in a relationship, things don't reverse, they continue to keep going off, so, the time to nip the relationship entirely is in that budding stage, not after it has fully bloomed into the skunkcabbage it is, obviously wilting, having already sucked valuable nutrients from good soil to feed the rotting thing.
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