I am scared of becoming my mum

She's fat, gluttonous, doesn't work, her friend are only the mothers of my friends or people like the gardener.she is judgemental and short fused.she's controlling and distrustful of me (won't let me stay at home by myself for even a night).Despite not having a job, the house has never been tidy (yes, we all help out though).There's paper and mess everywhere.I offer to do more but she doesn't let me much, like i'll tell her i'll start doing the laundry.she says things I never want to her like you're my favourite child despite having 2 siblings or look what your awful sister did.she's obsessed with materialistic consumption(our house is filled with cooking books, lifestyle magazines).The other day she asked my sister 'apart from being your mother, why do you actually love me'.my sister came to me and told me this, she couldn't think of anything to say but she loves he.Me? I cannot think of anything.
I want her to stop so much.We are all nearly grown up.I am 19.my oldest sister is 30.She has to stop playing this pathetic role of a 50's mum which she never did perform well.I want her to get a real life.
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fromthesoul
Just think at the end of the day your not your mum! What ever happens to you in your life and what you might become is competely up to you! Your life is in your hands! If you dont want to end up like that then dont :P x
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Silentbreeze91
Maybe there's a reason she's acting like this. Have you asked her about what's going on? It seems like she's trying to hold on to something, maybe it's you?
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safetynet
I am scared of becoming my mum
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Avoid time travel and paradoxes.

Problem solved.
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