Here is my problem

I have been dating this girl who used to be my best friend. When we are alone everything looks perfect, we talk, we laugh, we make out, we have even been close to having sex. Sounds good but there is a problem. There is another guy who is trying to win her over. He is her exboyfriend from like 3 years ago, he is studying abroad but he video chats with her every night. She told me that she doesn't know who she rather be with. I tried to break up with her but it didn't work, we ended up making out and things even went a bit further. I say "break up" but we are really nothing more than friends yet. Anyway, this situation is nice while I am with her but when she is away, it becomes torture. I feel that one little mistake and it is over. I am not good with girls, her ex boyfriend is. Somedays it feels that she will pick me but some other days I feel I don't have a shot. It seems he is going to come back soon, I don't know what I'm going to do then.
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I know that in the end I won't win, she is not that fond of me. I am only lucky he is away. Whether I stay or back off is irrelevant. If I stay, it will only take a bit longer before she chooses him, if I go I will make things easier for him. I've accepted reality but I can't leave. Not yet. I want to have the chance to hold her and kiss her for a bit longer. I want to pretend she loves only me, at least for a while. When the time's up, I'll leave.
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Have confidence in yourself and run your race. Doesn't matter what he's got going on....he's not u. I mean it also sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Maybe the best thing is to back off. It would take some self control. Absence really does make the heart grow fonder. She'll be forced to make a decision. Just be sure to protect yourself from getting hurt, because she sounds like she's currently not in a position to do so. It sounds kind of selfish on her part, but you also have to know what u want as well.
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