Hard Place To Be

Alright, I have made many horrible choices in my life time. Everyone else is stuck in their own little world refusing to accept change. They only view as that 6th grader that was into the "emo" look and very immature. As a child I was always the outcast and very anti-social so I can see where they can come from and everything. Although I have changed and my "friends" haven't. I know I am still categorized as that kind of person. I have got an offer to move to my aunts to clear my head of all the drama, but I'm not sure I want to go. I will lose a lot of my freedoms. Also a couple of my friends say that if I go I will be running from my problems. I would like someone other than my family or my friends opinion so help anyone?
Like
1
Report Abuse
anonymous user
You are defined by the company you keep. I agree with Cynic, despite their method of wording it. Unfortunately until you've been established in society a while, public opinion does matter a little bit. The better way to 'fix' this situation is to decide how you want to be seen, both to yourself and to others, and start making strides towards it. If you feel this will be easier done in another location then fine. If you want to stand on your own to do it, then good on ya. If you're changing and your friends aren't. perhaps the best place to start is to reevaluate your friendship.

Again, however, it doesn't matter whether you leave or not. It only matters if you actually take steps towards fixing the issue.
Like
0
Report Abuse
MalkavianChildre
Blah, blah, blah.

Do it, or don't. It will make NO difference in the long run.
Like
0
Report Abuse
Cynic
I give the same advice and ask the same question to all the stupid problems.
and does it do any good, ever?
ever? ever? does anything ever get into those tiny tiny tiny heads? no.

Q. why do you care what people around you think?

Just live your life- however the f**k you want,
and IGNORE those who dislike or live differently that how YOU approve of.
because it's YOUR life, and YOU chose what stays in it.

Trends are ridiculous. people dress the way they like or act in a certain way and people stick names to that. but again. who the f**k cares.
Like
0
Report Abuse
Fuzzyssad