Had Me Speechless

You ever have sex with someone it's so good to where you can't talk? I've only had it once with a guy I had been knowing years before it happened. I tried to wife him after, but he told me he couldn't be with me because he didn't know what he wanted out of life. Next time I seen him, he was with his girlfriend in Walmart. Story of my life.
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Lakid13
First thing first, I'm a straight male, so no Tom, D**k or Harry for me.

Seeing as how you seem like a foolish teenager, I am quite a bit older than you are. I've had lots of experience when it comes to being in love and having sex. Have you?

Regarding sleeping around, it's not as bad as you seem to think, so long as everyone is okay with it, there's actually a lot of fun to be had.

Self respect for my body? You seem to be mixing up the terms your elders threw at you. I have a very high regard for my self and I take reasonably good care of my body I think. Having sex doesn't hurt either of those things, since sex is a very natural thing and regardless of what you may have been told, is not a bad thing.

Passing myself around like a paper towel. I don't really understand what you are trying to say. Most paper towels get used once. You ever used a paper towel and then cleaned it up and gave it to someone else? That s**t doesn't even make sense, fam. Get some better lines.

Love and sex are two different things kiddo. Most of the time you want make love to the person who you are in love with.



Now, from what you said it's obvious that you have never had sex, probably because you think that it's a bad thing. I am guessing that you've been pumped full of your pastor's prudishness since just before entering puberty and told "don't do this because it's wrong".

That's your problem.

Because when you do find someone who you think is right (but probably won't last 5 years with you) you'll find out that when you are having sex with them you will probably still be thinking "it's wrong". That means that your sex life will probably suck (and not in a good way).

In the meantime, how about you hold off on trying to give advice until you actually have some experience in life, and maybe you can keep yourself from looking like a complete arse next time, mmmmmmkay?

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Cynic
Hey Cynic, the way you specified it "in your own words" sounds like you must be having sex with every Tom, d**k, and Harry. You really must not know what love really means. I guess you just like sleeping around. Also, you probably don't have self respect for your body you probably pass your self around like a paper towel. Besides, it's better to have sex with someone you love.
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beautifulyou
Your philosophicateringtothepublic is stupid. There's nothing wrong with having sex because you want to.

What's wrong is expecting that someone owes you something because you had sex with them.
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Cynic
That's why, my philosophication have aways been don't sleep with a guy until you marry him, but make sure you really love him, and if he doesn't want to get married then move on and don't sleep with him. Anyone can have great sex, but then after wards he puts a feather on his hat and moves on to the next. I guess then, the sex wasn't good after all. I thank my lucky star's I have never been through that. Sorry about that. Just know the next one that comes along make sure you guys are very much a tight item before you sleep with him. Take care.
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