First Boy Band Crush

So I'm a straight guy in a happy relationship with my girlfriend but I have this secret obsession with One Direction and a weird man crush on Harry Styles.No one knows this, but whenever I need to jam out to a song a 1D song is usually a must.It's strange they're the only boy band I've ever liked and it's hard to explain why I like them so much.I've never anyone I like them because its just so hard to explain.
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venividivici1
It's ok every one has a man crush or a girl crush (girls or boys) I think it's cute you like one direction, I like them to I bet we'd be good friends.
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Lexi1
The idea that you are Straight, Gay or Bisexual is constructed by society.
When you are still affected by the constructed morality and social expectations of the soiety in which you live you feel a strong affiliation with one sexuality, because that is what you're told happens, you're have to be just one of the three.

I believe that humans don't naturally behave like this, that when freed from learned societal values human sexuality is a spectrum.
I believe that naturally people fall anywhere on this spectrum, so that a man can find women sexually attractive nearly 100% of the time but occasionally find an exception to the rule.
The same for straight women. Even gay men and women, when freed from the constructed idea of 'straight, gay or bi'.

For example I generally find women sexually attractive. Day to day I'm attracted to women and generally think they are a work of evolutionary art, truly beautiful creatures, all curves.
Every now and then though I see a man I find sexually attractive, it doesn't happen often at all but I don't freak out when it does, because it's normal.
Being able to appreciate the beauty of the human body, in whatever way that suits you, is one of the best things about life.

Sexuality is a spectrum, so enjoy this chance to appreciate the male gender in a way you don't normally do, what's life without a little spice?
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anonanon1
No one (or hardly anyone) is 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual. Most people are much more one than the other, which determines what sex they actually engage in sexual activity with, but there's definitely nothing abnormal about periodically finding yourself attracted to people of the sex that you don't typically prefer.
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KoalaTamer
Nah, it's pretty cool that you like them. I've known straight girls to have girl crushes.
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