Engaged but met the guy I want to marry today

I am engaged to my boyfriend of 6 years. However, today I met this amazing guy named Jason through a family member. He is kind, sweet, attractive, and we just had this bond. It was like, "wow! " when we met. Jason is the one I would rather be marrying other than my fiance.

I haven't told my fiance anything about it.

But I can't stop having daydreams about Jason.
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unknownkill01
I feel for you. I was in exactly the same boat. I had a fiance, a guy I had been seeing for 5 years... and then on Halloween I met my new neighbor. Well two weeks later after a little too much beer at a party, i was making out with him on our way back to his house ( the walk was over 20 minutes even without the make out session so you can imagine how crazy this all was).... I don't really need to say anymore of how that ended but it was the most amazing couple days of my life. I had an amazing connection to him, one that i couldnt even begin to explain. only thing is i cheated on my fiance and when i finally told him, it broke him and me. I destroyed the relationships i had with the neighbor and with my fiance, but most of all the moral guilt that came with trying to reconcile how I who had never looked at another guy before and who thought my fiance was the love of my life could sleep with another guy i knew nothing about confounded me, it destroyed me as a person, throwing me into a complete wanton depression and self destruction. I was left alone to work out what had happened, to learn how to live with my mistake etc... what i learnt though is that you need to tell him. you need to tell your fiance. you say you need a break to sort things out... that you suddenly felt something for this guy and its weird, and you're worried about making the wrong decision and hurting him... and then you pursue jason and see if hes right. if not you didnt destroy what u had with your fiance and if your fiance is right you will be together, if not then there will be someone else. the thing is not to have "what ifs' or regrets hang over you. Don't make my mistake.
we can all have a partner, human beings dont have to be alone, we just need to give our all to the situation, to try our best and be as honest as possible.
Hope this helps. I know how hard it is
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kbe
Well, it's hard when you find someone that you click with so well.
Are you SURE that you'd throw a 6 year relationship away for some new stranger?
I mean, you really don't know this Jason guy, right?
He may seem great at first, but there's a lot you may not know about him.
I would atleast get to know Jason better before I made any life-changing decisions.
I guess I'm just not a firm believer of "Love at first sight."
Good-luck. [:
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CinematicSnow