Alone in a sea of people and just want to drown...

I have plenty of "friends", and every girl I've ever known has ranted and raved about how I'm such an amazing guy whose so damn nice, and so perfect and this and that etc... I used to be much heavier and I thought the reason I could never find someone to care for me was because of my looks. So I lost 125lb hoping that if I could make myself look better I'd find someone to like me. Nope; still completely alone.
Now I don't know what to do. No matter how perfect, amazing, nice, kind, or good looking everyone says I am, I can't find one fucking person to care about me like I care about them. I always seem to see the good in people to the point where I could practically date a great white shark. Yet not one person can even stay with me for longer than two weeks or so relationship wise. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, and not one of the girls I've ever been with could tell me. They all say the same thing "I don't know what it is, you're so perfect; but I just don't feel that way about you".... Of fucking course you don't, no one ever has. No one ever will.
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grimiam
No, my name isn't Matt.
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grimiam
is your name Matt?
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thelittlethings
I'm not gay, let's start off with that. And the thing is it definitely wasn't a fluke. I've had the same pattern happen to me over the past 20 or so girls over my life. They're all very short quick flings that all end the exact same way. In the end I'm the only one who cares, as is usual. It wouldn't bother me so much if it didn't happen over and over and over and over. I just can't see an end in sight and I don't want it to be that way forever.
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grimiam
Perhaps you're coming off too desperate. Maybe you're rushing into relationship after relationship far too quickly and girls are starting to think you're easy. It could just be that your standards are too low, or maybe it's just a fluke of bad fortune in the dating department. Regardless of the reason, obsessing over your love life is never a good thing. You have friends, so people obviously love you, even if it's not in a sexual manner. Stop mulling over what you don't have because it's just going to drive you deeper and deeper into a state of depression. For now, just try to enjoy the perks of being single and let romance come to you in time.
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phraser
no offence!
...maybe they think you're gay?
I mean, arn't all the perfect guys?