I'll first start with who each person is:
Amy - the girl I'm currently involved with, lives with Jay.
Jay - Amy's current open relationship, lives with Amy.
Amy Jay and Josh all go to the same University however do not share classes.
One month ago I met Amy and Jay.Long story short, I slept with Amy not knowing her and Jay were in an open relationship.
Fast forward a few days and I'm hanging out with Amy again and we're having more sex..Its not just sex though, I mean we're not just meeting up for sex, its much more then that...We're spending hours just getting to know each other, then after sex ensues.Anyway she constantly pesters me telling me I'm not real, that I must be a figment of her imagination.(I have no intent to sound conceited however the following will make it seem very much so).She sees me as a sort of oxymoron, a good looking guy, who is fit, but also has something between his ears, and is also genuinely nice.Hurrah I sound like a conceited bastard.To those who know me on here you know I'm not.
At the same time Amy, Jay, and I all hang out on numerous occasions.Keeping the relationship between Amy and I as a secret did not last long as neither Amy nor myself enjoyed the dishonesty it entailed.We tell him and Jay is totally cool with our relationship as it is, given he has no particular choice on the matter since the bounds of his relationship with Amy allows for other relationships to be indulged in.
Anyway fast forward three more weeks of both 1v1 (Amy and I), and triangle hang outs (which by the way are very enjoyable the 3 of us get a long very well).I get punched in the head by Jay.
WOW.lol I'll back up some, give more of a background on Jay, and give context, a.Jay is fairly strange.He's incredibly impulsive, however is actually a nice guy.At the same time he's very strongly opinionated and is in no way afraid to tell you so.He has a very small group of friends to my knowledge and non of whom he sees on a consistent basis.We were all sleeping in the same bed, as it happens fairly often, when we started to wake up we all woke up together.Still laying in bed I sat up and looked over, seeing them both stare at me sitting up I smiled at Jay....To which He punched me in the forehead.I'm a fairly calm person, I also hate violence, so I did not hit him back or anything, nor did I say anything.Once again to give Context I'm about 4 inches taller then Jay and have weigh about 20 lbs more then him.On his fists path to punch me he also accidentally hit Amy on the way.
As I said Jay is very impulsive and went silent after he did it..sort of in a disbelief in his own action..Amy was the first to say anything and expressed her disbelief at Jay, slapped him, and left the room crying.After a time Jay asked if I was ok, to which I told him I was fine.We talk for a time and Amy comes back to find us laughing.We go for breakfast together at a local restaurant.
Some more talking ensues where each individual chats with one other however not all together as I have constantly suggested we do.Anyway Amy has constantly throughout this mess told me she wants to be in a relationship with me, and not with Jay anymore, And Jay is convinced Amy and himself are in love with each other and I'm a 3rd wheel.
I'm incredibly cautious of Jay's impulsive nature see how he carries a multi tool with him everywhere that has a knife..However I would like things to work out between at least Amy and I.
Anyway if actually got through all that congrats and welcome to my fucked up situation..